I was talking to a friend the other day who told me she had been talking to a guy and they were going to go on a date. But then came the deal breaker: he does not like animals!
My friend has a dog, and the guy knew that.
This made me wonder, would it be a deal breaker for every one?
I look into the eyes of my two babies, and it would be a definite deal breaker for me. My two dogs are my babies, my children, if you will. Sadly, during my volunteer work with a local dog rescue group, I have sat and watched people actually give up their dogs because of a new baby, because they can no longer afford them and, my favorite, they no longer have time for them.
To take it a step further, if my dog does not like the person, or if the person does not like my dog, then it is an immediate deal breaker — for me, at least.
But, what if they are OK with your animal, but treat them differently than you. For example, you may think I'm wrong for doing this, but, I allow my dogs on the furniture with me. But, I know others do not allow their animals on the furniture at all, so how would you compromise in a new relationship?
My friend said she told the guy they didn’t have enough in common. The guy said "OK, you will never hear from me again."
I guess going to the dog park together would have been out of the question.
Have any of you had to compromise? If so, how did it work out?
Cecilia
3:02 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Love me love my dogs!
Melody Urso
8:49 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Definitely a deal breaker for me - trade loyalty and unconditional love for the unknown? Never! Jessie is #1
Stacy Rush
10:19 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Love me, my sons and my dogs are no deal! Guess that is why I am blessed with Don.
Lynette Berry
11:33 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
I had a client that was allergic to dogs and cats so I guess it was a deal breaker for him and I had a perfect lady lined up for him but it wasn't to be.
I came as a package there was me three boys and a dog my now husband had never had children or dogs but it worked out for the best in the end we got married last year and now he loves my boys and the dog and couldn't Imagen a life without them.
I think there has to be a degree of compromise but at the end of the day if it just doesn't sit well with you then it is never going to work.
Take care all Lynette and Eric the Fox Terrier