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How a Dunedin Mom Who Lost Her Son to Cancer is Giving Back

A Dunedin mother inspired by the loss of her 5-year-old son Mathew turned to Dunedin Lanes in January to help raise money for care packages for Florida families at their children's hospital bedsides.

 
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Karen Gliddon's daughter Molli holds up one of Dunedin Lanes bowling pins that businesses are decorating to help families with critically-ill children.
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Karen Gliddon's daughter Molli holds up one of Dunedin Lanes bowling pins that businesses are decorating to help families with critically-ill children.

Editor's note: This story originally ran in January. We're putting it in the spotlight again to highlight the accomplishments one person can make.

 

When Karen Gliddon was at the hospital with her cancer-stricken son, the last thing on her mind was leaving his side to get a toothbrush.

"I didn't want to leave Mathew for a second," the Dunedin mother said, holding back emotion while her 2-year-old daughter Molli doodled on a piece of paper nearby.

It's a topic she has a tough time talking about, but she insists, because she feels it is important.

Mathew, her firstborn of three children, battled acute lymphoblastic leukemia from the time he was 2 until succumbing at the age of 5. Molli hadn't even been born yet. Gliddon's younger son Andrew was a bone marrow match, but a post-transplant infection was Mathew's final blow on April 16, 2008. It's a date still fresh in Gliddon's mind. 

Her experience fuels her work behind Paul's Project, a Palm Harbor-based charity that provides care packages and support to families of critically ill children at hospitals throughout Florida, including All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg, Tampa General Hospital and St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital in Tampa.

The care packages contain comfort items not readily available, such as basic hygiene and toiletry items, socks, mints, a calculator, restaurant gift cards, laundry detergent and more — enough to sustain a family for five days. They are all items that would have been helpful to Gliddon in her time of need. Paul's Project also helps families with counseling, housekeeping, pet sitting and child care.

"When you're provided those types of comfort items, you don't feel so isolated," she said.

The organization is throwing its first family-friendly bowling fundraiser at Dunedin Lanes next Saturday, Feb. 2, with pizza, games, prizes and more.

And to help, Dunedin Lanes gave Gliddon 10 old bowling pins, which she decided to use in a decorating contest for local businesses. 

So far, five Dunedin merchants are participating. Pins are still open to businesses that would like to join. 

Gliddon's daughter finished her doodle: two scrawled circles with what looked like eyes and an extra scribble on top for hair.

She asked Molli, who is that?

"That's Andrew and that's Mathew," Molli said.

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About this column: Good Neighbors is an occasional feature on residents who are doing good work for the community. Would you like to nominate someone for Good Neighbors? Email dunedin@patch.com with "Good Neighbors" in the subject line, and let us know why your nominee is making a difference in Dunedin! If possible, please include a photo of the nominee. Related Topics: All Children's Hospital, Bowling, Cancer, Dunedin Lanes, Good Neighbors, Leukemia, Paul's Project, dunedin, dunedin news, and family support

Joe Kurtzke

9:14 am on Wednesday, April 3, 2013

The death of anyone impacts those around them, but when it is the death of a child it makes an even greater impact in many cases as one has to question why.

Sadly we are seeing more an more stories of Cancer, ALS, Alzheimers and other Critical Illness related deaths and more of them are hitting the younger population than ever. Whether it is a matter of lifestyle or something else it is something that folks need to be more conscious of.

We are very fortunate to live in a community like Dunedin where neighbors and businesses alike are available on virtually a moments notice to help in whatever manner they can. As adults and family friends we should also pay better attention to our financial planning and instead of thinking it "could never happen to me" begin to lay the groundwork just in case it does.

Talk to your financial planner or insurance agent and get a review of your plans to be certain that you are prepared as best you can be financially for events like this. There are many supplemental and insurance plans on the market that can help. Also do not neglect the living benefits of life insurance.

joe.kurtzke@gmail.com

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