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Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Pen Name Jane

Stay-At-Home Mom is Not the Hardest Job in the World

Just because motherhood is hard doesn't mean it's a career — after all, there's no retirement, and the pay is terrible — so stop comparing it to other jobs.

Oprah used to state — when the subject came up — that stay-at-home mom was the hardest job in the world. Each time those words left her mouth, it felt, to me, insincere, like she knew she had to say them but what she wanted to say was, “Seriously? I work 18 hours a day, I run a zillion businesses, I own a school and I’m responsible for hundreds of people’s livelihoods, and someone who is home, at this very moment, watching TV, in the MIDDLE of the day, has the hardest job in the world?” And one of her employees, with a mic on their head and a clipboard in their hands, would say, “Remember who your audience is.” And Oprah would sigh and repeat the words. Those words “the hardest job in the world” feel disingenuous to me no matter whose …

Katie Malone

6:32 pm on Tuesday, May 21, 2013

I found a great company that focuses on green living and being able earn an income staying home with your kids. Take a look at http://dp.momsprovide.com.   more ›

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Pen Name Jane

Sleeping Next to the Monster With Yellow Teeth

Pen Name Jane peeks behind the curtains of a household with a new baby.

Oh, what a special time! You’re pregnant with your first child, and you and your husband are so proud. You can’t drink anymore, but that’s fine. It’s worth it, right? Your husband still can. So he does, and he goes out to bars. And for a while you go with him and everyone loves having you around because you’re the designated driver. But you quickly realize that drunk people are boring and it is only temporarily amusing to say to yourself, look, this guy is so drunk he is telling the same story again. You try to talk to anyone, but they are all happily enraptured in the retelling, like kids who can’t have enough of the same storybook (but you don’t know about that yet). So you just roll your eyes and decide: OK, you’re ready to drive …

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Katie Dolac

12:53 pm on Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Hmmm .... Sounds a lot like being a Patch editor.   more ›

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